Everyone's a Critic (or a DJ)

Right off the bat let me say I found the peer reviews to be helpful. Anytime you get feedback it tends to be helpful, this coming from one of the most stubbornest people you will meet. But my problem is with how we conducted the peer reviews. I wanted to ask my reviewer questions face to face instead of just seeing what he wrote. I would rather have a conversation with a reviewer to get a better understanding from what he or she thought and maybe to clariy some things up. Also I feel when its anonymous the reviewer tends to be harsher and more critical, I know I get that way.